Thankful

OK I have a thankful. My cousin had a baby with his girkfriend three months before I had Ava. They were engaged and lived in their own home and went on vacations. I was a bit jealous. However, they are now separating and in a horrifyingly digusting custody battle. Basically they are using the baby as pawn in their bitterness towards each other. I am thankful that my unwedded baby having self is not dealing with that problem. Although I guess it does not matter if you are wed or not. I dread ever having to deal with such things and if I do I pray that I will handle well and not be an asshole.